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Susan Kacvinsky's avatar

I’m so glad to see the research behind what I’ve suspected for so long. I leave my phone in the kitchen when I write. When I’m creating a new story I walk for hours in nature with a small spiral notebook and pen. It’s amazing what creativity arises from walking between the worlds. It’s like entering a dream while awake. People tell me my phone has a notes app. “No thanks.” Almost every chapter I write was written long hand first. There’s something about the connection point of the pen to the page that focuses me. Then I started writing on Substack and I notice the addiction to checking taking hold. Your calling attention to it allows me to admit I saw that and stop. Nothing is happening that can’t wait. Thank you.

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Katherine O'Connor's avatar

Excellent. It seems that messaging is the overwhelmingly strong draw. Stock and weather checks not so much. The compulsion is to get personal validation in some form. "I’m here.

“I’m seen.” A message confirms that I matter. No longer, “I think, therefore I am.” The corrected mantra is, “I am getting messages, therefore I am real.” Negative messages may be preferred to no messages, anything to stay seen. This is an awful substitute for finding your relevance in your own thoughts.

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